Shando was hot. A bunch of noobs made jokes about jerking off to her. So she left. That basically sums it up.
It's a damn shame we scared Shando away. That's my thoughts. That being said, since the shando days, I got myself a real gf, a hot one, who's Russian. So, suck it. Now I just need to calm down on the sex so I can do ZI work. Oh, we're late by 3 weeks on ZI's bday. I am starting the party tomorrow.
To be fair, it was a group effort. Two people in particular really alienated her, and only a few told them to stop while the rest piled on. Naturally, I wasn't much help either, though I have talked to her since she left and I was not the reason she left so... take that for what you will.